Looking at the users on this site, women say they want men who are funny, romantic, caring, successful, and a whole host of other personality traits. In this they are not significantly different than the majority of women out there looking for a partner.

Why then, do most women date guys that have none of these personality characteristics, some of whom are unemployed, in dead end jobs, cold, distant or downright abusive IF THE GUY IS PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH.

I'm not suggesting that w  more...

Looking at the users on this site, women say they want men who are funny, romantic, caring, successful, and a whole host of other personality traits. In this they are not significantly different than the majority of women out there looking for a partner.

Why then, do most women date guys that have none of these personality characteristics, some of whom are unemployed, in dead end jobs, cold, distant or downright abusive IF THE GUY IS PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH.

I'm not suggesting that women should date men they aren't attracted to, but why do they ignore a reasonably good looking guy who meets their "criteria" for a loser who is really physically attractive?

We've all heard this done to death by media "experts", but what do real women and men in the real world think. Have you ladies done this? Have you guys been on either end of this kind of thing? less...

The answer is easy,

Women date men who are way less then what they deserve because Those are the men who ask them out, those are the men who persue them..........the nice guys you're talking about finish last because they give up too easy, they don't ask women out, if the woman is busy the first time they never ask again.

It's my opinion,

I'd love to find some guy who not so attractive and had all the rest.